Why do straight women go to gay "cruise" bars where it's all gay men and just start up random conversations? - where do men cruise in sac

It is clear that men have no interest in their approach and 99% of men do not want to anyway, or if you talk to?

Especially if it is a male gay cruise bar, where most men are there to reach other people?

I know that some women feel "safe" for gay men, but it is not selfish to go to a gay bar, where they are not welcome and will be perceived as a nuisance and an intrusion?

Or are women just stupid and not know that we are not true in an episode of Sex and the City, and they are welcome, no?